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The Better Half-

demitinay — Sun, 13 Nov 2011 05:07:27 +0000

Have you ever wondered why spouses are always called the better half? Why has this become a part of everybody’s culture? Since when did one become half by marrying another? This is something that people have gotten wrong. Marrying someone does not make two become one. It makes one plus one. It only means that just because you are marrying someone, you have to become half of what you really are. This is the reason why couples break up and not just because of shure sm58 or any other musical, guitar gadgets. They always think that they can find their other half from another person. They failed to realize that they should be whole on their own first before they can give what they have to others. This is the essence of marriage. You have to first be whole so that you can share it with another whole person. When both of you are just one when you are together, when you are apart, you are definitely nothing.

SECRETS MEN KEEP

jhanok — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:03:57 +0000

Don’t Freak if you find out things like this late in the game. A guy hides some info until he’s sure you’re girlfriend material.

Work worries. Dudes don’t want you to know if they’re not 100 percent confident in an area that’s core to their self-esteem. A guy will often act like everything is super on the job, even if he’s rethinking his career choice or sweating getting fired.

His cluelessness. He isn’t trying to be phony when he pretends to have seen a movie you mention or picks a wine without knowing if it’s red or white. Men frequently fake expertise when they want you to trust that they can take care of you.

Medical history. You might think of routine medical maladies like knee injury or an appendix removal as no big deal, but many men consider any physical failing to be a sign of weakness.

The timing of his last love. He may be vague about exactly when his last break up occurred. He’d hate for you to think he’s a player if it was, like, five minutes ago, or that he’s lame if it’s been a year.

Bridging the miles

jhanok — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 12:56:19 +0000

Tried and tested ways to keep you and your man as close as two peas in a pod despite the gaping distance.
As leap and bounds are made in the fields of transportation and communication, people become increasingly mobile, affecting not only their options for work and education, but also their relationships. Where the playing field was once simply made up of your neighborhood ( and perhaps nearby cities), love can now blossom with partners literally from either side of the world further boosting the possibilities of a successful long distance relationship (LDR, for short). If you find yourself quite unexpectedly in a long distance relationship, we’re going to discuss the three ways to make it last: in a few days.